Kids At Weddings 101 (Infographic)

Wondering whether or not you should invite kids to your special day? Read our latest infographic to learn more about the etiquette of inviting children to your wedding.



There’s no doubt that the topic of children at weddings is one that divides opinions. While some couples think that children add excitement to the day, others see them as an expensive disruption. Whether you’ve decided for or against inviting kids to your big day, or are still on the fence, you should read our latest infographic guide to help you plan your day – with or without children!

If you have decided to invite children to your wedding, you will need to think about how to keep them entertained for the day. Weddings can be a bit of a slog for little guests and they can get bored easily… and bored can become bold very fast. This is easy to prevent with just a little forward-thinking. For example, the kids may get a little bored during the speeches so it’s a good idea to put entertainment packs at tables to keep them occupied.

Many couples are now opting for ‘adults-only’ weddings. This often boils down to budget, however many couples simply want to avoid the disruption that young children can bring to the ceremony, speeches and the meal. Deciding not to invite children is an etiquette minefield and requires a great deal of tact. For example, you should try to tell the guests early as they may need to book a babysitter well in advance.


See the infographic below to learn more tips and tricks about children at weddings. It will highlight the key parts of the day when kids might become difficult and also includes handy advice on how to entertain kids at weddings. For those who have chosen to go with a more adult affair, we have provided some pointers on how to phrase the invites.


kids at wedding 101

Should You Elope 101 (Infographic)

Small, intimate and romantic – elopements offer a welcome alternative to the pomp and ceremony of big weddings.

For many, the word eloping conjures up images of starry-eyed lovers spontaneously running away from disapproving parents. However, in modern times eloping presents couples with a small-scale alternative to the grandeur (and expense) of a large, traditional wedding. Eloping no longer necessarily means excluding family, as some couples may choose to invite only their very nearest and dearest to the ceremony.

Should You Elope?

When it comes to eloping, there is no right and wrong. Each and every couple has their own unique definitions of what it means to elope, the most important thing is that the couple is true to their own desires and follows whatever path makes them happy.

When deciding whether or not you should elope, you must take the time to reflect on your motivations – do you really want to elope or are you simply running away from the responsibilities and pressures of wedding planning. Following this, be sure to weigh up the various pros and cons with your partner.

Planning Your Elopement

No matter how small and spontaneous your elopement, planning your elopement still deserves a little thought. Just because you’re forgoing the big wedding, doesn’t mean that your day doesn’t have to be any less special.

If you’re thinking of planning a wedding for two, why not check out our handy infographic guide on how to elope. Not only does it take you through the process of deciding to elope, but it also features some the must-dos, and the most definitely don’ts to get you on your way…

Should You Elope?


The Ultimate Guide to Summer Wedding Flowers

It is a truth universally acknowledged that any couple in want of a beautiful summer wedding must have flowers. For those who don’t know their daisies from their daffodils, selecting the perfect floral touches can be a challenge. Fortunately, our crack team of wedding experts have put together a comprehensive guide which will provide you with the know-how to choose your stems like a pro.

How to Find the Perfect Flowers to Go With your Summer Wedding

The first thing you will need to do is decide on your flower aesthetic. Are you aiming for something classic brimming with old-time elegance or are you going for a more natural, laid-back look? Once you have identified this, it will make it easier to work with a florist on finding just the right arrangements to complement and enhance your overall wedding theme.

For example, if you are planning on a casual wedding you may want to consider the deep-blue hues of the cornflower which would look stunning against a vintage-style white dress. Alternatively, brides who want to capture the full glory of summer in their wedding may want to incorporate colourful and delicate cosmos in their bouquets and centrepieces.

How to Choose a Wedding Florist

Wedding flowers are one of the most important elements of your big day, so it’s important to find a florist to help you make the right decisions. A good wedding florist will make wedding planning a breeze by providing expertise on what’s in season, what’s in budget and what looks pretty. Our infographic outlines some key considerations you should bear in mind when selecting your florist to make sure you get the best buds and blooms for your big day.

Read our infographic below to get the low-down on the most beautiful flowers for your wedding and to learn more about finding the perfect summer wedding florist.

The Ultimate Guide to Summer Wedding Flowers

Platinum or Palladium Wedding Ring?

Palladium is the new kid on the block, and for that reason many people are unfamiliar with it as a choice of metal when choosing a wedding ring. In this blog post, we discuss the pros and cons of choosing a palladium wedding ring or a platinum wedding ring to help you make an informed decision on a piece of jewellery that you will wear for a lifetime.

Most of our customers  in the market for an engagement or wedding ring don’t know what palladium is, but it’s one of our favorite metals to use for wedding jewelry for many reasons. Palladium rings are often presented as an alternative to platinum rings. Let’s take a closer look at the differences between the two.

Palladium vs Platinum Appearance

Both platinum and palladium are naturally white metals and, unlike white gold, will stay white forever. Both metals will look the same, although palladium will have a very slightly darker hue as it is one shade darker than platinum. However, when highly polished, the difference in appearance of both metals would not be noticeable.

Because gold in its natural state is yellow, we need to rhodium plate white gold wedding rings to prevent the yellow tinge showing through. Platinum and palladium rings on the other hand have a naturally bright white colour. This is a real advantage over white gold as they need far less maintenance. In fact, both palladium and platinum develop a patina finish over time that requires even less maintenance.

What is Patina?

Patina refers to the look that platinum and palladium rings develop over time. When a white gold ring is scratched the gold actually is removed from the ring and over time the ring develops a scratched surface. On the other hand, when palladium and platinum rings get scratched, the metal moves around on the surface. Over time, this gives the ring a matte-finish appearance known as patina.

Most people are excited for their ring to develop a patina finish because of the beautiful look it gives to a ring. However, if you don’t like the look of the patina, you can always have both a platinum or palladium ring re-polished which will bring it back to its original shiny state. Alternatively, you can opt for a white gold ring which doesn’t develop patina.

palladium wedding ring with matt finish

Palladium wedding rings are available in a range of contemporary styles.

 Palladium vs Platinum – Durability, Hardness & Strength

Palladium is a harder metal than platinum, which means a palladium ring is harder to scratch compared to a platinum ring. However, a wedding ring will be worn everyday, so regardless of what metal you choose, your ring will pick up scratches from general wear and tear, so this should not be a deciding factor.  Additionally, as mentioned above, both palladium and platinum rings will develop a patina finish. If you don’t like the patina finish, just like a gold wedding ring, you can get it  re-polishing every now and then to restore it to shiny new. Platinum and palladium are very strong metals suitable for wedding rings to be worn everyday.

Weight of a Palladium Ring vs a Platinum Ring

Platinum is more dense than palladium, making it almost twice as heavy . A palladium wedding ring weighs about the same as a 14k gold ring, so weight should not be considered a major deciding factor. Some people love the heavier weight platinum rings, but some find the lightness of palladium rings to be more comfortable.  So it really comes down to a personal preference.

palladium and gold wedding ring

Today’s wedding rings are available in a whole range of metals and finishes

Is Palladium or Platinum Better for Allergies?

Platinum and palladium are known as hypoallergenic metals, which means that they will not cause skin irritation. If you notice an allergic reaction to gold or silver jewellery, then one of these white metals should be a good option. Also, none of our palladium or platinum rings have any nickel in the alloy, which is generally the main main culprit of allergies in engagement rings and wedding rings.

Palladium vs Platinum Cost

The primary reason platinum rings are more expensive than palladium rings is because platinum is much more dense than palladium (almost twice as dense)! This means to make the same ring, we need to use more grams of platinum than grams of palladium. However, this is not the only determinant of price. Really, the jewellery industry is a secondary market for both platinum and palladium. Both metals are used by the car industry as a component of catalytic converters. So, the price of the metals is driven by the perceived demand from that industry. If the financial industry thinks that Chinese are going to build a lot of cars, then the price goes up.

Over the past five years or so, we have seen a surge in popularity of palladium wedding rings over platinum because if its cheaper price relative to platinum. Traditionally, a palladium ring costs half of what a platinum ring would cost. However, since 2016 the price of palladium has doubled, so we are beginning to see this significant price change being reflected in shop windows. When making your decision on what metal to choose for your wedding ring, bear in mind that just because one metal is cheaper that the other does not mean that one is inferior in any way.

 

William and Kate’s 5th Anniversary

Imagine a marriage to a Prince. An unlimited budget, Westminster Abbey for the ceremony and back to the Palace for the Reception. In our latest infographic, we look back at William and Kate’s wedding – 5 years ago this month!

A royal wedding is an extravagant affair.

The Most Engaging Time of The Year

Did you get engaged over Christmas? If so, you are not the only ones. In our latest infographic we look at the facts and figures behind engagements in Ireland.

Christmas is the most popular time to 'pop the question'

Christmas is the most popular time to ‘pop the question’

View our stunning range of engagement rings on our website or at our showroom on Fitzwilliam Street.

Tips For Buying An Engagement Ring

1. For any couple, buying an engagement is one of the biggest investments of your lives, so it is worth spending the time to do your research to get the ring that you want. The stone, usually a diamond, is the feature piece of any engagement ring. Familiarise yourself with the 4 C’s; these are the carat, colour, clarity and cut of the gemstone. You will need to balance the qualities of these factors to get the diamond that is right for you at an affordable price.

2. If you are working with a small budget, you should consider the 5th C; cubic zirconia. A cubic zirconia stone is indistinguishable from a real diamond except by an expert, but is a fraction of the cost. You could always plan on replacing the c.z. stone with a real diamond later in life when finances improve. Make sure that you receive your certificate with your diamond, the two go together.

3. Shop around. There are plenty of options available. High street stores are a good place to start as you will get a good idea of what styles are available and a good indication of price. If you are looking for vintage, there are plenty of shops in and around the Powerscourt Centre that stock a good range of upcycled rings. In recent years, a number of boutique diamond retailers have popped up off the high street. Certainly, they are worth meeting as they can offer value. However, don’t feel pressured to buy just because they have invested time in you.

4. Internet retailers, are very competitive on price, but just remember that the price you see is not necessarily the price you pay. Bank charges, duties and taxes, if the ring is being shipped into Ireland, can really add to the cost. Also, be aware that the image of the ring you are viewing is not necessarily the image of the ring you are buying. If you choose to buy online, remember you can always get all your money back if you decide to return the ring.

Handmade 18k Gold Irish Engagement Ring

5. Some couples choose to go to Antwerp or New York to purchase their ring. There are good deals to be got there, but just be aware that the guys you meet at the stores there are very good sales people who know that you are there for the weekend to buy and will price accordingly. Drive a hard bargain.

6. Don’t forget the most important factor for you to consider when purchasing your engagement ring is price. Decide on how much you are willing to spend and stick to your budget. Good Luck!