How Do I Choose a Ring to Suit my Finger?

It is a huge and memorable occasion when you get engaged or married. People will always want to mark it with something beautiful which will highlight its significance. Jewellery is traditionally that outlet and so when people make that purchase, they should aim to make it one which suits their hand and as a result stands out for all the right reasons.buying a ring

When you want to find the most flattering ring for your hand, take a look at your finger shape as well as your hand size. You could also decide to get the help of an expert at your selected wedding ring or engagement ring specialist. Different hand shapes look best with varying shapes and sizes of stones. There are some guidelines below but they are just that; guidelines.

It is important to note that a person with large hands and short fingers is likely to look best in different ring styles in comparison to a short-fingered person with small hands. Similarly, finger width can affect the look of a ring, even nail shape and length can make a difference too. When choosing rings, think of the proportion of the fit as well as the ring style you love. You will only really find out what suits you by trying on some rings so before you decide, try on your friends, family and colleagues rings to get some idea.

Long fingers: Round rings are often the most flattering ring here. Marquise shapes often make long fingers look even longer which you may not want. The marquise is a stretched out, oblong shape with pointed ends. This is similar to pear or oval stones which may also not be very flattering. Most flattering: Round rings.

Short fingers: Round stones can make short fingers appear even shorter. Big rectangular rings can overwhelm and are probably the least flattering. Most flattering: The marquise shape can help add the illusion of length, and pear or teardrop shapes are usually flattering.

Wide fingers: The key is to pick a ring that is not thickset in style. Most flattering: Cluster-styles, round stones or wider marquise styles may flatter short, wide fingers.

Narrow fingers: Heart-shaped or round stones are not the most flattering on narrow fingers. Most flattering: Rings with small stones may help give the illusion of wider fingers.

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Large hands: Rings with smaller stones will inevitably look a little lost on larger hands. Most flattering: Go for ornate styles, perhaps coloured stones.

Small hands: Keep the proportion of the ring small in keeping with the daintiness of the hand. Most flattering: Small heart-shaped, oval, round, or square stones. Thin bands and fine settings

Does a wedding ring have to match a bride’s engagement ring?

If a bride plans to wear both rings on the same finger, then the norm is to match the jewellery so they look like good together. If down the line you choose to add an eternity ring or band this can add to the overall look again. An experienced jeweller will be able to advise you further.

All About Weddings in Ireland

Weddings are a mainstay in Irish society and culture. Weddings in Ireland are often quite traditional in nature; with a church wedding and then onto a hotel usually close by. However, trends have changed dramatically in the last 5 to 10 years with a lot of changes being seen in couple’s choices of venues, dress, jewellery, wedding rings etc.

A wedding day is a huge day in every couple’s lives. It is the day when their family, friends and loved ones come together to celebrate their joining as a lifelong couple. It is a momentous and emotional occasion.

There is often a lot of costs involved in hosting a wedding day in Ireland with the largest cost often being the price of the venue. This cost includes feeding your guests which can rack up your bill. Traditionally Irish weddings are a large affair and sometimes people feel the need to invite all their neighbours and extended family. This needs to be avoided if budget is an issue. Sometimes a smaller wedding can end up being a more entertaining and imaginative affair.

Wedding jewellery has changed a lot also however some couple do still like to stay with the traditional and have beautiful wedding day jewellery such as Claddagh rings. These are a fantastic symbol of love and Irish culture and will remain timeless.

Europe continues to be the destination of choice when it comes to honeymoons. It is accessible easily for Irish couples and can often be very affordable.

Hope you enjoy our infographic on all things weddings!

Ireland Weddings

 

Traditions Associated With Irish and British Weddings

In years gone by, traditional brides in Ireland used to wear a blue wedding dress. Blue was considered pure. It wasn’t until 1499 that white wedding dresses started being worn by Irish brides because then white symbolized virginity and purity. Another unusual tradition that Irish weddings generally followed years gone by was in the locking of the church door during the ceremony. This was supposedly done to prevent the groom from running away during the wedding. Another old, unique tradition in Irish weddings was when the bride and groom tied an actual knot. The couples hands were joined together using a rope or cord. This was done to symbolize the union of the bride and groom and the bond of marriage and this is where the phrase ‘tying the knot’ comes from.

Wedding Traditions

During the ceremony, the bride and groom were meant to walk together to the church before they exchanged their vows. The onlookers would bless their union by throwing rice and other large items like pots and pans to the bride and groom. The bride was expected to have her hair braided on the wedding day. Braided hair represented luck and feminine power. Most brides wanted their wedding to fall on the St. Patrick’s Day because long ago it was considered the best day to have a wedding anniversary in Ireland.

The Irish considered the honeymoon as a special month when the couples would spend their days drinking honeyed wine in a secluded place. This is where the phrase honeymoon is coined from as it was seen as the ‘month of honey’. It was assumed that after the month was over, the bride would become pregnant and the family wouldn’t separate them especially if they had eloped. Nowadays, the traditional Claddagh Ring is often given as a wedding ring.

British wedding traditions are quite interesting. The most common one is the fact that bridesmaids were expected to wear white and look like the bride in order to confuse/ward off the evil spirits. The Church of England had its own standard vows which were not supposed to be altered. This is why traditionally the bride and the groom did not kiss after saying the vows. However, this soon changed.

The bride’s wedding bouquet had to include myrtle which was considered a herb of love. Brides from the royal family had to include a spring of myrtle in their bouquet as seen first in Queen Victoria’s wedding in 1840. When the bride found a spider on her dress, it was considered as a sign of good luck. However, if they met a funeral on their way to the ceremony, it was a sign of bad luck.

Wedding Traditions

In British weddings, the bouquet was not thrown to wedding guests. This tradition began in 1923 when the Queen Mother placed her bouquet on the grave of a World War 1 soldier after her wedding to the then Duke of York. She did this in honour of her late brother who was also killed at war. This tradition has been followed by royal families since then.

In British weddings, sapphire was included in the brides’ wedding rings because it symbolizes happiness in a marriage. Ideally, bridesmaids in British weddings are meant to be children and the bridal party is also smaller compared to other countries.

In traditional British weddings, the bride must enter first down the aisle. The bride is then followed by the young page boys and bridesmaids. The other common British wedding custom is when they place a penny or sixpence in the bride’s shoes.

These are some of the traditions and customs which surround British and Irish weddings. They have changed overtime so most of them are now not put into practice. However, they remind the British and Irish people of their diversity so everyone should appreciate them and it is also interesting to see how wedding traditions and themes have changed over time.

Wearing Wedding Rings

Jewellery has a history going back millennia. Ever since humanity learned to work metal jewellery has been an intrinsic part of our fashion sense, our pride and our boastfulness. Some of the only remaining artefacts from ancient civilisations are the buildings, their weapons, their pottery, their bones and their jewellery. Across civilisations ranging from the Irish Celts, to the Ancient Egyptians and numerous Eastern cultures we have learned a vast amount of our current knowledge from the jewellery that these peoples were buried with.

Wearing Wedding Rings

One of iconic pieces of modern jewellery is the wedding ring. There are few occasions in life for a celebration as large and important as a wedding. A wedding represents a commitment between two people for life and memories of that day are treasured for a life time. One of the on-going, daily reminders of a wedding and the loved one you commit to is a wedding ring. It was placed on your finger on your big day, and it sits on your ring finger showing your faith in your relationship, or at least that is how the theory goes.

For many people, mostly men, a wedding ring was something worn for one day, seen in pictures and then taken off and consigned to a drawer. This was a matter of practicality for most. A man wearing a wedding ring was a sign that they had a sedentary life; that he didn’t work for their living. If you worked on a farm or in a mine, if you spent your day building wooden roofs or worked with metal and stone then a ring was a danger. There are many people to this day who should not wear a ring for their and others safety: people working with food or with machinery. A ring poses a risk when it can get caught onto something and trapped.

Wearing Wedding Rings

While not wearing a ring was a matter of practicality for many people there were still those who just refused to wear one without any explicit reason. This could be because their own father didn’t wear one, because they want to hide their office based work life or simply because they do not see themselves as the type of person to wear a ring.

Society has changed. A simple gold band was the enduring symbol of a wedding for many decades (even if it was not worn) and many people do not buy into that tradition. Many more even see marriage as an archaic and irrelevant institution, however those opinions are suffering against a modern reality: weddings are cool again. Across the world debates are raging and parliaments and presidents are signing into law the right for any couple to marry: straight or gay. Research has shown that a new enthusiasm for marriage has sprung up. Across the world people are seeing how important marriage is as a sign of love and commitment. It is no longer something for previous generations, there is a freedom to it, an openly embraced dedication between two people. And with this new freedom wedding rings are becoming more and more significant and the traditional gold band is now a choice. Wedding rings are being personalised. Individual designs with significance to the people dedicating their life to each other are popular: whether that significance is with a traditional gold band or very personal design.

Weddings and wedding rings have been modernised, they have lost the decades old stigma, and showing that you have dedicated your life to someone is a thing to be celebrated.

Shopping For Wedding Rings

Shopping for an engagement ring

Jewellery is a strange business. Go into a computer shop, or electrical shop and the customer service will be asking you if you want a pricey third party three year warranty. TVs and an engagement ring can be had for about the same price, but the experience in buying them is completely different.

The tradition was that the man would spend however many weeks’ wages on an engagement ring and surprise his wife-to-be with gold and a huge stone. For some people that’s still the case, but for others buying engagement rings in Ireland, things have changed. It’s quite common for a simple ring to be picked out for the down-on-one-knee moment, and then the newly engaged couple shop at their leisure for the “real” ring. This is from recognition that there can be just as much meaning and sentimentality to sharing the experience as there is with being surprised by the perfect ring. Both ways work, every couple will have a preference.

 

Shopping for an engagement ring

And that’s why jewellery is a strange business. For many people the ring isn’t about a diamond and gold, or platinum and an emerald. Instead the ring is about the significance of the event and the memories and future it represents. No jeweller will want you to get the “three year warranty” with your ring. A good jeweller will want your happiness to be ensured throughout the process, by helping you have fond memories of the occasion.

This happiness can take many forms, some jewellers will sit down with you and go through all the options relentlessly. Others will provide high quality catalogues and websites with detailed, professional product shots so you can browse through the images while cuddled up on the couch. Some jewellers will design a special ring for you, and others will even help you design your own ring. The important point is that for every couple getting engaged, there’s a jeweller who will suit you.

Take your time when getting your engagement ring and wedding rings. Relax and enjoy the process. When you find the ring you want, you will know. So spend as many weeks or even months browsing and looking from site to site and shop to shop. You’ll never have an experience like this again. Unlike so many other parts of engagements and weddings it doesn’t involve anyone else. It’s you and your partner without concern for pleasing distant cousins or nosey neighbours. And if you can relax during the process you’re sure to enjoy it and remember it for decades to come.